31 | I’m NOT a MOM! Can I use the techniques that you talk about in MamaNest for my own life? or it’s solely for moms?

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This “Tip Tuesday” question is one of the most frequently asked questions of yours.

Did you know that a vast majority of the workshop attendees, MamaBest participants, and English acade,y students here in MamaNest are women who are not a mom?

Then let’s see what are my convincing reasons to claim that the MamaNest techniques are generic…

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Today I received a very brilliant question, a frequently ask question of yours, that you were wandering whether or not this techniques and methods that we're talking about here and mamanest are advantageous for a woman who is not a mom too. So, if this question is yours too, then let's get to be the best version of yourself. Mamma, I'm master is a and welcome to Maman Ist and nest for mother MOMS were eager to achieve a simpler, more intentional life. In this podcast, you are going to rewrite the screen and reinvent the culture of Motherhood Together. Remember, becoming a mother is the beginning of our prosperity, not forgetting our souls. A fulfilled, healthy, confident and productive mom is all we need to be to guarantee our families future. I'm an admission to make you feel in power and less overwhelmed. We'll focus on...

...productivity, parenting, mindfulness, Meni MoLISA sustainable lifestyle, financial awareness, besides family wellness. I'm here to help you brought a new horizon and gain clarity on showing up as your best mamaself. So let's build you out. Today, let's dive into it. Hello there, thanks for taking the time to a should have our feedback and for allowing us to share it with you. You know, I really like the planning methods you provide in the programs, but I'm not like a mother yet, so I was wondering if these strategies can be useful to me or not. Thank you. Hello everybody, how are you doing? Welcome to another episode of Tip Tuesday. To Tuesday is going to provide the context for you to ask your question, whatever that is in your mind, that is in your heart, and you want to just...

...ask it from me and from mom and podcast. So you're just need to go to our website, www dotmoma is codecom and hit the button tip Tuesday. All you need to do is to record your question and then I'm going to receive it and I'm going to answer it here in the podcast, and I would be more than happy to hear your voice in person and answer it here in the podcast. You know that your questions all are valuable and maybe they're useful for a lot of people. So if you're thinking of creating any kind of value, this is opportunity for you. Okay, let's get to today's question. Today's question was, you know, very, I mean, to the point and very, very frequently ask as I told you in the in sure of the podcast, you know, it is nearly every day that...

I'm receiving this kind of question from the direct messages of our instagram page or from the attendees of the workshops or anywhere that can. I use these techniques, even if I'm not a mom, and so I'm going to answer it here today. I think that it is the best possible time to answer this question because I think that it is one of the most, I mean triggering questions in your mind as a woman who's not a mom, and you know, some of you has attended in our workshops, some of you as attended in the most Mama Best Club, I mean, and you're reaping the benefits of this, but you're not a mom, and so maybe this question is yours too. Or maybe you're new to this podcast, your new to moment nest, and you think that maybe it is solely related to the life of...

...a mom. But I'm here to tell you that maybe you need to just think twice about this, this question, and so let's get to the answer of this question. Well, if you are not new around here. I mean that if you are attending any of the workshops, if you're in the monist English Academy, if you're in the Mama Best Club Support Club, you know that I'm always focusing and I'm always emphasizing on flexibility, on the fact that we need to be flexible around our plannings, and so this is one of the core concepts of my method in planning and goal setting and just mastering our life, and this factor of flexibility is something that is needed, I think, in this modern volt, for every every kind of person with every...

...role, with any situation. So yeah, the answer to this question is crystal clear. It is crystal clear that these techniques and methods are useful for all of the people, I think, in this modern role, because these days we're busy with a lot of roles at the same time, we have a lot on our plates, and so we need flexible methods of planning in order to manage, in order to master all of them. We are not living in a perfect environment, we're not living in a perfect situation all the time. We are not just living in an ideal, I don't know, situation. We need to normalize the vulnerabilities. We need to we need to normalize the vulnerabilities, we need to normalize the situation that are happening in our...

...life, that that are deteriorating our plannings, that are deteriorating our goals, and we need to just be more flexible around all of them. And this is one of the core concepts that are always considering in all of the techniques that I'm talking about. So in this perspective, yes, it is related to everyone's life. It is, I mean, it can be tailor made to anyone's life. For the second factor that I'm considering always in all of the techniques, it is the fact that we need to be realistic about our situation in our life, whether you're a mom with a one with one child, with one Kiddo, or you're a mom with two kiddos, or anyone, I mean or any any kind of any number of children, or you're a woman without a children, or you are a girl and you're not married...

...yet. You have a situation in your life and this situation varies based on this the season of life that you're in. For example, you might have the entrance, example, of university. So in this system of your life solved. The things are more important for you, and so the things are not baby. You're just entering a new job position. So in this sism of your life's focusing on your job is one of the most important goals for you. So our situation varies. Our situation is not really, I mean fixed during our life, and we need to be flexible around that. We need to be flexible and, at the same time, be realistic about our own situation. We do not need to compare ourselves. We do not need to know, for example, what someone does that, for example, get successful and enter the university, and then we need to apply and then we...

...think that, for example, maybe we need to apply that technique in order to master our life. No, you know that person was successful in your studies. But we need a technique, we need a method in order to master our life as a whole thing. You know, our life has a lot of sections, our life has a lot of factors, so we need to consider all of them. So, if you're anything like me and you want to master all of the pieces of your life at the same time, you need the technique to be flexible enough and you need to be realistic about your own life. In order to just tailor made every one of the techniques, Tay Tailor made every one of the planning methods for your own life. Otherwise you will practice, you will just try to attend any of I mean try to implement any of the techniques, and then you are failure after a...

...while, because those techniques are the tailor meat for your own life. So if you need to be consistent, if you need to be persistent in just implementing any of the methods of planning and goal setting, you need to consider the factor of being realistic about your own situation. Otherwise you will fail. So, in this perspective, to the momentous methods are useful for you as a as a woman who's not a mother. So this is useful for anyone you know, for anyone who is considering the, I'm inconsistency of implementing the techniques that are in her mind. So if here anything like that, these techniques are also used for you to and also, the third factor of my method in planning and goal setting, getting everything that I'm just describing your in Mama and nes, is the fact that you are the root cause. You...

...are the one who knows exactly about your life. You're the one who need to just do something for her life, and so you need to know the reasons of what is happening in your life and you need to provide and you need to offer the I mean the things that the things that can enhance your life quality. You are the one who is going to provide the better situation for your life. You are the one who need to do something to cure her life. You need to you, you are the one who need to program your life, and so you are there the main player of your life. And with this perspective, to the techniques are used for a woman who is not a mother, to these techniques are really applicable for a lot of us. It is you, bequit us, it is general for all of...

...the people, especially, specially the mom's as, I think, the worst case scenario. You know, I'm always making a joke and tell everybody that maybe the life of a mom is the worst case scenario in the in this I mean way that it is unforeseeable, is unpredictable, and so it needs maybe extra special techniques in order to be mastered, in order to be managed. And so, if you're thinking like this, so a woman, I mean without any children, has the best case scenario in this, in this joke that I was telling you, and so the best scenario can use the techniques that the worst Kay scenario uses, and it is crystal clear. That is useful for you to I hope that you get the answer. I hope that by considering these three factors of flexibility, tea, of being realistic about...

...your own situation and of being the main player of your life and the main person who is ponsible for enhancing the life quality of yours. I mean with considering all of them, these three factors, I can say that you can also conclude that these techniques are a hundred percent applicable for you, a hundred percent advantageous for you. And if you are the old bonus follower, you know that you have a lot of women in our community, in specially Mamabous community, the English Academy community, and they are not mothers, but they are really enjoying being part of this community and they're really reaping the benefits of using these techniques in their own life. So we are really looking forward to have you in our community, in Mamas community, and just see around here.

We know that you can also apply all of these techniques in your life and, like the other people in our community that use these techniques and they think that this is the best possible technique ever for planning and managing their life, I am a hundred percent sure that you also can reap the benefits of them. So thank you, thank you for sending your question to us, and thank you for or being part of this community, Mama is community. We are all waiting for all of you women that are not mothers to join us, to be with us, and we moms here around here are really eager to get to know you more. So thank you. Thank you again. I wish you the best, all of you, the moms and also the women who are not a moment you're listening to this podcast, we should the best for the day ahead. Goodbye. Thanks for listening to the Mama...

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